Where does the time go? I just realized that I hadn’t written on my blog since January. Now it’s April, although today it looks like January. Dang it! Happy last day of spring break!
I don’t really know why I haven’t written anything in the past 3 months. I haven’t been especially busy or overwhelmed. I’ve done a little sewing, a little cooking, a little housework, a little reading. Nothing that would have kept me from writing for a long time. Huh. Whatever. Onward and upward.
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I was looking forward to spring break for a number of reasons: My pantry really needed to be cleaned and reorganized, a project that requires a large block of time. Happily, I got it done and now I can walk in there and look around and be happy. I anticipated making my spring purse, but I haven’t found any fabric that “talked” to me, so that was a no-go. I planned to spend a lot of time at work, getting caught up and moving ahead, but that didn’t happen. It will, though.
Instead of accomplishing those things, I got to spend some time with Rick’s dad and siblings, and some phone time and a little bit of real time with an old college friend who I don’t see often enough. The reasons for these visits were unexpected.
Rick’s Aunt Lee passed away on Thursday last week. She was 91 years old (I think that’s right) and had lived a long life. We went to her funeral in Salt Lake on Tuesday and afterwards Rick and I were able to spend time with his family. The funeral was nice and brought a feeling of peace and visiting with everyone afterwards was nice.
Last Friday, my dear friend from college, Joy, called and told me that her husband Sherm had died earlier that day. It was completely unexpected and sudden. Sherm was 55 years old. He and Joy are one of those happy, fun-loving couples that we got together with every now and then and each time we were reminded of why we love spending time with them. They are great people and we are so sad for Joy.
We went to Centerville for Sherm’s funeral on Wednesday. It was one of those funerals that leaves you feeling uplifted and hopeful and sad, all at the same time. I know Joy and her children and grandchildren will miss Sherm terribly, but they have wonderful, happy memories of him. They have knowledge of the resurrection, and faith and hope that they will all be reunited someday.
I’m anxious to spend an afternoon with Joy in the near future. She told me that since Sherm died their family has experienced miracles and tender mercies. She’s already told me about a few of them, and I can’t wait to hear the rest. Joy is a woman of great faith, and she will be OK.
I was talking to my friend Lori yesterday and telling her about Sherm’s funeral. Lori’s husband died a year and a half ago, and we know several women around our age whose husbands have died during the last few years, leaving many young-ish widows. Lori and I talked about the fact that I could very easily have been one of those women, but by the grace of God, Rick lived through his illness. I don’t know why Rick got to live and so many other wonderful, great men didn’t, but it’s a blessing I remember and acknowledge and feel grateful for every single day.
And now spring break is coming to an end on this wintery, blustery, cold morning. I didn’t accomplish most of what I intended, but I did fit in a lot of visiting and laughing and crying and riding around in the car. We also got to spend time with our grandbabies and we enjoyed watching General Conference.
As we prepare for Easter, I feel an overwhelming love for God and for the Savior and for their unending love and influence in our lives. On Sunday, our ward choir will sing “He is Risen!” and I’m looking forward to that experience. As the song says, “Let the whole wide earth rejoice.”





